I don’t think there’s someone that did not pass through childhood, have toddler thoughts, play kid games and even at times have realistic dreams as a kid! I also could not be wrong to say that everybody played bad and good games in his/her childhood as preparation for their future “parenthood.
When I say bad and good games, I know most of you’ll get me wrong. As a kid, you could try to act and behave as a mother or a father; cook, make toys, knit, act as teachers or church leaders. This shows the creativity of children.
Unfortunately, others kids could develop bad games such as stealing their parents’ money to buy sweets and toys for their pals, attempting to make food as their parents do and on occasions leading to the burning of homes or going swimming without their parents ‘ knowledge and some drowning.
From the above characters, you can know which kids have realistic dreams in life. As a parent who wants your kids to set realistic dreams, you’re the perfect person to teach your child, regardless of whether you concentrate too much in your career. It is your duty and responsibility.
Though some children appear to naturally behave themselves, others should be taught these skills from you or the institution they pursue their education. But with help and practice; kids can develop good habits.
Look at your kids keenly; do they have realistic dreams in life? Do they tackle tasks independently? Take a look at what they do without your help as a parent sometimes; that is, their school homework and household tasks. Are those tasks done with increasing steadiness and good organization?
Good parents need not pester much since the kids will still need their parental guidance and help in each step they make. Your children feels better when you’re there for them. It feels good when your children feel self-assured and swollen with pride when they are able to do their tasks through your direction.
As these children grow up, they will need to set realistic dreams. Regardless that, they will have to go through challenges. As a parent, you should help them tangle through with life’s highs and lows. You need to understand your child’s conducts, whether it is toddler irritability or adolescent misery.
Remember that for your children’s visions to become realistic, the children need advice now and then. Sit down with your children and teach them basics like being truthful and disciplined.
Remember to tell and teach them how to handle tough issues like; alcohol, sex and drug abuse in life for them to achieve their dreams.
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