Most men cannot take rejections; their ego will burst with every rejection that they get. The idea of walking up to a woman in the pub and having her reject you causes more men to feel sickness. They find them and their self-esteems finished.
They just start imagine the situation when they will ask a lady for dating. They start speech rehearsals before approaching women. But when the moment comes to actually do it, everything changes. The heart rate shoots up, breathing quickens, thoughts of rejections feel the mind, and eventually the pressure becomes too much to bear.
Most men find this state so scary, and so eventually give up approaching women, and end up feeling down. They give up without even trying.
There are two kind of situation in rejection, one is the Fear of Rejection and the other one is the Actual Rejection. Actual Rejection is having a woman talking to you in an offending, rude or upset manner. Fear of Rejection is having your little mind inside your head imagining all sorts of ways that women may reject you.
In reality, the Fear of Rejection is far more difficult to handle when compared to an Actual Rejection. Most of the times when men start to talk to women, women are pretty fine with the whole affair after all. They just talk in a simple way but due to fear of rejection men already imagine the poor situation, which actually isn’t there.
Remember what will happen when a woman rejects you, your world will not stop you just need to take it simple move on. Because you know that there will be more women out there who are willing to make friend with you!
Author: Paul SmithThis author has published 46 articles so far.