Remaking broken relationships can be very tasking to all the involved parties. When breaking up people are usually affected by the pain caused and hence harsh words are sometimes directed to the other party. Pain is the major obstacle when it comes to repairing a relationship between persons who were once very close confidants.
When one wants to reconcile a breakup he should work on several issues that may hinder the reconciliation. Pride for example can cause two people to grow further apart after they are broken. It is the most widespread problem that the healing of troubled relationships. Many people let this vice come between them and their esteemed friends or partners.
By putting away their pride, partners are able to put matters on the table and solve them adequately. People feel happier when they see that they are not entirely blamed for causing a breakup. Also by taking partial responsibility to the events leading to your breakup means that you are open for dialogue with no prejudgment whatsoever.
Another point on healing relationships is time. Always try to talk it out with your friend soon after you have quarreled. Letting a problem run for a long time without solving it can only make it harder for you to face it and solve it. In other words time has the power of desensitizing a person thus making him cold.
Other people who are not part of the relationship can be the major cause of your breakup. These people are the voices that give out ill advices which are meant to destroy rather than build. Never give in to ill advice but instead you should think deeply before acting on any counsel from the voices.
For a troubled relation to heal, all members in the association should be willing to reconcile. Mending relationships require dedication on the part of the involved parties. If a single member is unwilling to mend the relation then there is way that the association may be salvaged.
Every person was made different in terms of behavior. Therefore having two or more persons quarrel over a misunderstanding is one thing that is expected. However when repairing a relationship, one must have the patience to hear out what the other party has to say. Without patience the healing process might be interrupted and hence returning to the unfriendly zone.
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